
Learning to read and write has been a real struggle throughout my life. Tracing back to my earliest memory I remember my parents trying to teach me the sounds of each letter in the alphabet. I was 7 years old and was sitting at the kitchen table with a pencil in one hand and an alphabet chart in the other. I think it was around 10:00pm which for a 7 year old was considered rather late. Sitting on the opposite side of the table were both of my parents looking at me with frustrated, tried, and upset faces. I remember they had spent several hours trying to teach me the sounds of each letter in the alphabet. They would take turns pronouncing the sounds of every letter. My mom began by saying, “Alligator A goes AAAAH, Butterfly B goes Buh-Buh, Camel C goes Cuh-Cuh.” Then my dad would interrupt and say, “Dolphin D goes Duh-Duh, Elephant E goes Eh” and so on. I also remember looking at my parent's exaggerated expression every time they would make a sound for a letter in the alphabet.
I don’t really know if this experience was effective in teaching me how to read, but I do know that it was a very confusing time because my parents were also going through the same process of learning how to read and write in English. My parents at the time had just emigrated from Mexico and carried with them a heavy Spanish accent. Consequently, the sounds they would make for each letter in the alphabet would be really different from the sounds I heard at school.
As a result, my interpretation of that memory has changed over time. As a child, this experience was very confusing since my parents and teachers had different sounds for each letter. However, as a teenager this memory turned into a hilarious recollection because I remembered my parents taking turns making exaggerated sounds for each letter and animal in the alphabet. Now as a twenty year old, this recollection is one of the most beautiful memories in my childhood because it represents the hard work and determination my parents put in trying to teach me how to read. I now understand the struggles they were going through because they were trying to teach me a language they barely knew themselves. I hold this memory very close to my heart because it embodies the first steps I took in learning how to properly speak, write and read.
